Deep Meditation, How to Meditate Deeply, Empty Mind

—Deep Meditation Techniques – How to Meditate Deeply—

I have been meditating for thirty years. I might more accurately say that I have been trying to meditate for thirty years. Still, the intent has been there all along. I also must admit that over those thirty years my interest has ebbed and flowed. Only within the last five or ten years have I established deep meditation techniques. I say that “I” have established them, but the truth is that they have established themselves in me. What I have offered is patience.

My goal has always been to meditate deeply. Who begins meditation with the goal to meditate in a shallow way? I suppose it differs from person to person in terms of what the reason for meditating is, but for me it has always been to arrive at a deeper understanding of myself and life in general. The ultimate goal being some sense of enlightenment. I never approached meditation as a tool for relaxation, though meditation has always resulted in this.

Deep Meditation or Deep Escape
For some, a deep meditation technique is one that utterly relaxes their bodies, taking them out of the stress of everyday life. To achieve this one might include music or a guided meditation tape, but the goal is always escape. I can see the value in this, and I have experimented with these techniques. However, these techniques do not offer any long-term value. For the length of the tape or CD or whatever, one is distracted. When it is over, so is the value. A good movie can do this.

For others, and this includes myself, a deep meditation technique will offer lasting effects and is both powerful and transformative. Meditation can only do this when one remains alert throughout. For those accustomed only to the stress-relief techniques mentioned above, this may sound like a contradiction. After all, how can one truly relax if one remains alert and attentive to all that is going on. Isn’t this what we are so eager to escape from?

Sitting Still, Doing Nothing, Being Present
There is an aspect of this deep yet attentive type of meditation that must be understood before its value can be understood. The deep meditation technique that I am advocating requires only that you sit still. You just sit. That is all. In Zen circles this method is called Shikantaza, and it is a form of Zazen practice. One just sits doing nothing else. The “doing nothing” is the key. This is the part that can be a bit confusing. And there is no need to call it Zen. Anyone can do it.

When we sit still, our minds can still be going strong, wildly thinking about this and that. Just because our bodies are sitting still does not mean we are doing nothing. Doing nothing requires that the mind be still. This is often called “No-Mind” and refers to a stilled mind or empty mind. The still or empty mind is not a dull mind or a lack of consciousness. On the contrary, the empty mind is a mind open to all— a consciousness free to experience.

Deep, Transformative, and Healing
Stress is a product of mental activity taking place in the mind. All doing begins in the mind. Emptying the mind alleviates this stress. So the escape we are seeking is achieved without actually escaping. One is still quite present, conscious and alert. What is so readily misunderstood is how both escape and attention can be occurring in the same instance. It is the force of our relentless thinking that we seek to escape. Dis-engaged from the thinking process, we are relaxed, open, and peaceful consciousness.

This is the deepest of meditation techniques. It is transformative. It is a healing form of meditation because more intelligent instinctive patterns of energy are no longer disrupted by our thoughts. The body recovers its patterns and energetic integrity in the absence of imposed ideas and oppressive mental constructs. We become deeply connected to everything, for what has disconnected us in the first place are our prevailing thought patterns that support division, “I” and ego.

Wisdom, Understanding, Getting Started
Absent of trains and parades of habitual thoughts, consciousness is free to become deeply insightful and clear. Universal truths become abundantly evident and obvious as our ego-based patterns of thought subside. This method is transformative, healing and leads to deeper understandings and wisdom. What is the next step for those interested in practicing this form of meditation? There are techniques for stopping internal dialogue in meditation. I recommend reading this related article on the “I” thought method purported by Ramana Maharshi.

Meditations for Moms, 5 Minute Meditations, Deep, Mindful

—An Interview with Caroline Manrique, Part One—
In this three part interview with Caroline Manrique. Caroline discusses Meditations for Moms, Mindful Five Minute Meditations, Knowing and Understanding, Following One’s Heart, How to Practice Being, and Set Intentions.

Meditation How: What form of meditation do you find most effective?

Caroline: For me it comes in small moments throughout the day. I am a busy Mom and it can be challenging to find a 30 minute chunk of time for sitting meditation. So I try to be mindful throughout the day. And when I can get a 5 minute window…I will sit and begin to slow my breath. I close my eyes and place my hands in “Namaste.” I find these moments so refreshing and sacred. Sometimes I will do this in the car while waiting to pick up my kids.

Meditation How: Were there times before kids that you meditated for longer than 5 minutes? If so, was it anything formalized? I am not suggesting that a five minute meditation cannot be effective. After all, time is relative. I have had deep meditation experiences in just five minutes. However, this was not always the case for me. Only after a few years of deep meditation was I able to drop into anything like a quality meditative state within a 5 minute period. This is why I ask about previous experiences on your part. I am curious as to whether this is the case.

Caroline: Funny you ask this question… I did not really meditate before kids. Maybe I was not as stressed! I began to meditate more after my kids were born, as I could feel the pressure and stress of parenthood building within. After my second child was born, I began seeking “meaning” and was searching for something that formalized religion was not giving me.

I began to meditate and was introduced to Reiki (and actually became a Reiki master). This filled a significant hole within my spirit. And now I am “committing to sitting” even for only 5 minutes (but trying for at least 20- 30 minutes a day). It really makes a difference. Now, I find that I am more mindful, peaceful and patient.

Meditation for Moms, 5 Minute Meditations, Deep, Mindful

Meditation How: You say that the Reiki “filled a significant hole in your spirit” and I would like you to, if possible talk about how this occurred for you, not so much intellectually but what happened to you on a feeling level due to your willingness to explore your own inner life.

Caroline: When I first signed up for the Reiki class…I had no idea what Reiki was! I know that sounds crazy to sign up for something without knowledge…but I was following my heart on this. The first day of class was amazing. We did an hour long meditation followed by an in-depth discussion of energy and explanation of Reiki. Long story short, I began a lifelong spiritual journey.

Learning about Reiki energy healing was so eye opening. I feel so much more “connected” now. I follow my heart more and listen less to my ego. I realize that I know very little about the universe…but I know that energy and love are very much part of it. And since becoming more aware…I feel so much happier and whole.

Meditation How: I have another question for you. In what way do you routinely get in touch with your own divinity, and can you provide a recent specific example of how your meditation practice (what has been opened up through Reiki and then perhaps further developed by yourself) has enabled you to more fully navigate with your heart?

Caroline: It’s quite simple…I pray. Every day I give thanks for all the goodness in my life. I thank “the divine being” for assisting me in my navigation in life. Also, I occasionally use Doreen Virtue’s angel cards. I pull a card from the deck and will use that as an affirmation to guide me through the day. As always, I just try to be mindful. Being present and living in the moment.

>>> Part Two: Knowing and Understanding – Following Your Heart – Intuition